The Four Agreements

January 24th, 2009 by admin

“Say only what you mean. The word is the most powerful tool we have has humans.”

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
2. Don’t Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.
3. Don’t Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

by don Miguel Ruiz

Original post by: Sherewood Smith-Soley, 8 October 2008 - http://usnotme.blogspot.com/

http://www.miguelruiz.com/fouragreements.html

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3 Responses

  1. Barbara Uechi

    It would serve me well to turn that into a chant. Thanks for the reminder.

  2. The Social Reformer

    I like this alot

  3. Word_Bandit

    Ruiz changed my life at a very important point . . . might want to credit him above, would be appropriate.

    Thanks for the reminder.

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